I'm Jess, I'm 17 years old. This blog is to show that you're not alone in the things you go through. No one should ever think they're alone. I'll be posting relatable confessions about depression and related topics. My ask box is open and you are more than welcome to ask for any advice or anything you need, as well as submit confessions of your own. You can talk to me whenever. About Me Twitter
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Anonymous asked: your so pretty i cant look in the mirror cuz i hate what i see Why do you hate what you see? You just called a complete stranger pretty, and that means so much to me, and it shows me that you are a beautiful person. Absolutely beautiful and wonderful person. |
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thegirlinthestacks asked: I have depression, anxiety and OCD. After being off of Zoloft for several years I started having to take it again. It gets really hard sometimes to cope with everything. I'm scared that life and death aren't going to be what I imagined.I am scared to die. I'm scared that I won't be able to see my loved ones again after I die. These are the thoughts that cause my panic attacks. Your blog has really helped me understand that there are other people out there going through the same problems. I totally relate to what you’re saying, I have those thoughts all the time too. Death is inevitable, but no matter where your religious standpoint is, I feel that if you truly believe you’re going to see your loved ones on the other side, that you without a doubt will.And I’m so glad my blog has helped<3 |
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Anonymous asked: i cried watching your videos cuz i do feel by myself cuz no one around me is the same as me i cant relate to anyone i know and everyone just thinks oh shes just that realy quiet girl that never talks just ignore her they act like i dont even care about anything thats why i have such a bad temper when people make me angry i lash out and thats kind of the only emotion i feel all the other time i just feel like im putting on a mask and no one knows who i am and my mom dosent even pay atention to me I do not want you to ever feel by yourself or alone in any way, because you’re not. Maybe people around you can’t relate to you, but there’s so many people that can. Whether you know them personally or not. People don’t know what struggles you’re going through, and it’s hard to let yourself open up because you’re scared of judgement. That’s why you feel like you’re putting on a mask and no one knows the real you. But you need to see that you’re not the only one hurting, the person standing next you you could feel the same exact way, and you’d never know it because they’re wearing that same exact mask you are. If you were to open up to someone, a close friend, a family member, you wouldn’t lash out as much. Because the only reason you do now is because you’re holding in all of the emotions you’re feeling and you’re not telling anyone about them, so the only way they come out is when you get angry. It will help you so much to open up to someone. |
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Anonymous asked: when im at school and i sit alone and i just observe everyone else and see them talking and laughing and just being happy i cant see why im not like that and wonder why im so out of place i almost feel emotionless i try to remember the last time i was happy but i cant even remember what happy feels like, maybe i never was I know exactly what you mean, I do that too.. Don’t think you’re the only one who does. You we’re happy at some point, and you can get back to that. It’s never impossible, and it’s never too late. It may not be the easiest journey getting there, but it’s well worth it to try. |
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Anonymous asked: What do you do when your mind is too far gone to stop yourself and get help? I even set up precautions/safety with my therapist, and I can't use them. I have decided, and have everything chiseled in stone. Is there any advice for me? Your mind is never too far gone and nothing is ever chiseled in stone, please believe that. You have two choices here, 1. Try to push what’s hurting you away, try to push it out of your head. or 2. Let it take over. Let it claim space in your head. Even if you’ve already chosen choice 2, it’s not too late to fight it out. It is never too late. |
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Anonymous asked: two months ago, my ex&I broke up. He moved on, but i never did... I still find myself thinking about him a lot&remembering the good times. Everyone says I just need to move on, but everytime I try, I just can't do it. It's not like I talk to him to make these feelings get rehashed... If I talk to him, he just shows that he cares in some way/shape/form. What should I do? Should I talk to him? or should I just keep attempting to move on? I know exactly how you feel. Of course you’re still going to have some feelings, and of course you’re going to remember the good times. It’s only been two months, and that’s not a very long time. And everyone who is telling you that you have to move on, doesn’t know how you feel. If you feel like it’s time to move on, then do so. But, remember it’s only been two months, so if you aren’t ready yet.. Then you’re not ready. Time heals everything, but not when it’s rushed. What I did when I was in a situation like this, was talk to him occasionally. Because honestly, it helps with the healing process. If you don’t talk to him at all and just completely cut yourself off, it’s going to hurt, and it’s going to make things harder. Trust me. Stay strong<3 |
I changed my URL, it’s now
http://winningthebattle.tumblr.com
You can follow if you’d like another place to talk to me or anything like that. That ask box, as well as this one, will be open for anything anyone needs to vent, or ask advice about.
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Anonymous asked: I watched your video, it made me feel that I am not alone. I love your posts too! I understand that you can't post, because I am the same way except .. I don't have followers that like me ... I only have 57 :( Aw I’m glad it made you feel you weren’t alone, I’ll be making videos more often! And it doesn’t matter how many followers you have, if you’re using your Tumblr as a place to put what’s in your head, you shouldn’t worry about your followers disliking you. Blog to express, not to impress. |
